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Thursday, April 26, 2007

Pain

Emotional.
Is it hard for you to cope with it? Are you the type of person to think about it almost all the time? Or do you get over it quickly? Do things get to you a lot or most things, you can brush off quickly?

Me, personally. Things seem to get to me a lot, and it stays with me for a while. I tend to hold on to the past rather then thinking about the future. If a person close to me hurts me, I think about waaaay too much and for waaaay too long. You can call me a very paranoid person. I'm close to only trusting myself. Which isn't at all healthy. I am currently learning to be optimistic about myself, and the world. It's actually relieving and keeps me focused on my daily routine.

What kind of person are you? What do you think?

3 comments:

Ranga Nathan said...

Small things - I forget immediately. There is a voice in my that tells me what the right response is. Sometimes when someone hurts, I give no response. This is way different from what I used to do.

Big things? I used to sulk, get angry and transfer to other people. Now? I talk to someone. Initially I feel stupid but in the end, it is off my chest.

These days nothing really pains me.

I constantly remind myself of this:

He who dwells in the past and worries about the future loses the present.

Anonymous said...

well im a pretty optimistic person as well. i believe that the only way to get over a devastating experience, is to acknowlede that it happened, but then to move on. its not good for the soul to linger on things from the past in which you have no control over. I personally, have to much on my plate, and i refuse to make "Pain" the main course.

Anonymous said...

small things irritate me...
but over the years of just a buncha of small things... ive built a wall in mi self to ignore it... well at leats most of the time.... every1 deals with pain differently... and i understand how u feel.. cuz im on the thinnest line of onli trusten mi self... cuz you never no who will hurt yu... and i hate that ppl can b so decievin... and that pain can come so easily... but life is life... and it defintly has itz ups and downs...

***Rissa